In a remote Himalayan village, a rare glimpse into an age-old tradition unfolded as two brothers tied the knot with the same woman in a culturally significant wedding that’s turned heads across India.
The ceremony took place in Shillai village, nestled in the Trans-Giri region of Sirmaur district, Himachal Pradesh. The event brought renewed attention to the polyandrous customs of the Hatti tribe, a tradition that, while fading, is still alive in select communities of the region.
A Wedding Rooted in Consent and Custom
The bride, Sunita Chauhan of Kunhat village, married brothers Pradeep and Kapil Negi in a three-day celebration that began on July 12. The festivities included traditional folk music, dancing, and ceremonial rituals, capturing the attention of both locals and social media users after videos of the event surfaced online.
Unlike misconceptions about coercion in such unions, the trio emphasized that the marriage was a mutual decision.
“I was fully aware of the tradition and agreed to it willingly,” said Sunita. “We share a bond built on respect and trust.”
Pradeep, a government worker, proudly echoed her sentiment:
“We’re upholding our heritage with pride and transparency.”
Kapil, who lives separately due to work, added:
“This arrangement gives our wife the emotional and logistical support of a joint family.”
A Tradition With Deep Roots
Known locally as Jodidara, this form of polyandry — where a woman marries multiple men, typically brothers — is still recognized under Himachal Pradesh’s revenue laws. Though rare today, the practice was historically common in the hills, especially to preserve undivided family land and ensure communal strength.
In the Badhana area alone, five similar marriages have been reported over the past six years, though many are now conducted discreetly.
Kundan Singh Shastri, general secretary of the Kendriya Hatti Samiti, explained the social logic behind it:
“Polyandry helped avoid the division of ancestral land, strengthened brotherhood—even among half-siblings—and ensured larger, more secure family units.”
Modern Challenges and Cultural Complexity
While the practice continues in pockets, it remains controversial, especially as questions around women’s rights to property persist. Though socially accepted in some circles, such marriages are less visible today, with many opting for more private ceremonies to avoid scrutiny.
Still, for those in Shillai, the wedding was a public celebration of tradition. As the hills echoed with festive songs and ritual chants, the ceremony offered a rare look at a cultural custom that, while on the decline, still resonates with meaning for some.